Being the Other Woman

In my quest to find the perfect partner, I often came across lots of different men. I often contemplate it as a big shopping mall. There are men in suits, fat men, buff men, men in uniform, tiny men, tall men, black men, Caucasian men etc. But when luck walks out on me and fate decided to pull a major prank, I repeatedly found myself falling from the worst kind of men- the married one.

As I looked back from where I started, I felt bad while trying to understand the irony of things. Why are there so many amazing unmarried girls and too many amazing married guys? How can we make it equal?

The clock is ticking fast. Every single girl in the world is out there trying to bag the few remaining single men off the hook. And if you don’t hurry up, you’ll find yourself getting old with cats sleeping beside you in bed or spending your life with the “leftovers”. Or in my case, sleeping with a married guy and getting used to call as the other woman.

It wasn’t my plan. Being the other woman is not something I can be proud of. But I can’t help but fall for them because they do know how to please us girls. What I meant was, pleasure in a sense that, they know what, when and how to give that special care that us girls are looking for in a relationship. Married men are often mastered the strategies and formula on how to make us girls happy and contented. So when the time comes that we found out that they are no longer available in the market we can no longer let them go because we are truly, madly, deeply, effin in love with these bastards.

On the other hand, having a forlorn relationship with a married guy is also exciting and invigorating. Why? Because the risk of getting caught is always at stake and being on that pressure makes a single lady like me more eager to make the relationship really HAPPEN. Stealing away someone else husband is now considered as a trend. As bad as it may sound, it really works in real life. And sometimes, the other woman becomes the only woman and the real wife is left with divorced papers.

How can we make it equal? I don’t hella know. But all I can say is, WE single girls should never stop looking for the best kind of relationship. Whether the guy is attached or unattached, it doesn’t matter. As long as both of you believe that whatever you have is true. I can’t believe I am saying this but LOVE really works in mysterious ways. And it does not recognize any boundaries, laws or any marriage contracts. As long as two people are bind together in one understanding… no one could ever stop that.