Physical Attraction: Hypocrisy or Reality?

There are more than a billion people living in the world. Fifty one percent of the total population is composed by male species while the remaining 49% goes with the ladies. About 10% of these people are the ones you’ve met outside your door or living across your neighborhood. Twenty five percent of them are considered as the nameless individuals walking along with you at the mall or in the streets. And the remaining balance is those people that you’ve never seen in your entire life. 

What made it so amusing is the fact that despite of the good amount of number between the population of men and women, there’s only a slim chances that you will meet someone you actually like and that likes you back on a regular basis. Now why is that? Is it because physical attraction is important more than anything else or we are just born with bad luck?

Lately, I’ve been attending different events both for personal and business use. I realized that finding your next relationship prospect in an event is like searching for a needle in a bunch of hay. There’s only a pinch chances that the guy that you’ve been eyeing throughout the night is not looking at anyone else.  So what will be a common single girl do at times like this? 

There’s only three things on my list; WORK OUT, DRESS UP and GLAM UP!

Yes, no matter how shallow and stupid the idea is, physical attraction is a must. Inner beauty goes along in the package but contrary to others belief; it is not the main starter. For example, you cannot score a date with you looking ugly and wrecked. You have to dress nicely, smile with your face and feel pretty. Someone must notice you and by making that happen, you have to be fully aware that your physical look is as mesmerizing as possible. Whether the intention is long term or just for a night only, you cannot charm a guy with just your kind personality. It’s not bad luck darling! It is how the cookie crumbles.

A friend of mine told me that you cannot see kindness when you are just looking around. Unless you are gifted with a super intelligent see though vision that allows you to read mind and intentions. Otherwise, everyone will just see just how well or bad you look wearing that pink dress. Whether a guy is just looking for sex or long time commitment, you can’t light the fire without a spark. So stop being hypocrite and accept the whole reality… Physical looks may not be the END ALL of things, but it definitely starts something new.