Prologue

As we drive along this road called life, sometimes, we feel a little bit lost. And we find ourselves trapped in questions or situations that we don’t have any idea what will happen next. Oftentimes, these situations are sensitive and susceptible for public discussion. Most especially if these issues concern sex and romance. No matter how thrilled you are to find answers from your questions, most of us will rather choose to remain quiet and keep it locked inside your closet forever. 

There are few brave hearts who prefer to battle up front but there are still who can’t. As we pace along the road to our destination to find what we are really looking for, most of us can’t help but whine, “Are we there yet?”

I have dated quite a number of male from different places and race. It may or may not be serious but in every relationship I had with them, there’s a lesson learned and memories worth keeping. Regrets are inevitable but it goes along in the package. We can’t do anything about it. But we can learn to avoid those regrets or at least lessen the amount. 

I am a struggling female writer. I am in my late 20's and I don’t have PHD or any title to decorate my name to become credible and reliable but I can assure you that my experiences are well enough to be considered as your guide in finding answers from the pool of questions swimming inside your head. As a writer and a passionate believer, I have envision myself to dedicate my skills to help in keeping the world well- informed on how to deal with things that most people are so scared to face but really matters- our very own sexual dilemmas and issues.

 

This is only the beginning, an introduction to a whole new level of self awareness. On my next entries, I will share you all the things I’ve gone through; from romantic gestures to nerve wracking sex encounters; from serious dates to one night stand; from finding a potential relationship while sipping a cup of coffee in the nearby coffee shop to dirty tequila shots in a bar across the city. So at the end of the day, all of us can be fully aware of what to expect and what’s not.

But don’t get me wrong. I am not a slut or a whore. I just have different definition about life. I deemed that my existence to this world is a road less journey towards happiness. It is like an adventure that needs to be explored. I am not afraid to try new things or indulge myself with something I enjoyed doing. So brace yourself people… because this could be your portal to heaven.